THE TEAM
Life Over Dinner consists of a collaborative team of multi-disciplinary humans led by Michael Hebb.
Michael is the Founder of Life Over Dinner. He currently serves as a Board Member of Village Health Works and as Board Advisor (Emeritus) at the Friedman School of Nutrition Science and Policy at Tufts, is the primary editor of the COVID Paper; and in the recent past served as a Partner at RoundGlass and Senior Advisor to Summit Series, Theo Chocolate, CreativeLive, Architecture For Humanity, and Mosaic Voices Foundation. His second book "Let's Talk About Death" was published by Hachette in the U.S., U.K., and Australia in October of 2018 and Russia, China, Taiwan, Indonesia, Poland and Romania in the fall of 2019, and will soon be published in Finland.
In 1997 Hebb co-founded City Repair and the Architecture firm Communitecture with architect Mark Lakeman, winning the AIA People's Choice Award for the Intersection Repair Project. In 1999 Michael and Naomi Pomeroy co-founded Family Supper in Portland, a supper club that is credited with starting the pop-up restaurant movement. In the years following they opened the restaurants clarklewis and Gotham Bldg Tavern, garnering international acclaim. He served as a Teaching Fellow at the Graduate School of Communication at University of Washington. His writings have appeared in USA TODAY, GQ, Food and Wine and numerous other publications. Michael can often be found speaking at universities and conferences, here is his TEDMED talk.
Advisors. Life Over Dinner has a long list of advisors including: Dr. Gabor Mate, Arianna Huffington, Paul Stamets, Marshall Davis Jones, Eleanor Cleverly, Chip Conley, Monica Guzman, Richard Leider, Dr. Ira Byock, Sutton King, Bruce Feiler, Michael Franti, Dr. Elissa Epel, Marc Freedman, Dr. Shauna Shapiro, Rabbi Sharon Brous, Rabbi Amichai Lau Lavie, Frank Ostaseski and many others.
SPEAKING AND WORKSHOPS
Michael Hebb continues to speak and teach workshops at conferences and institutions around the world. Topics include End of Life, Grief, Psychedelic Medicine, The Art of Gathering and Community Building. For speaking engagements and workshop inquiries please contact:
michael@hebb.life
Past speaking and workshop events include: Obama Summit, TEDMED, World Economic Forum, Clinton Global Initiative, Summit at Sea, Summit LA17, The Nature Conservancy Annual Trustee Meeting, Forbes Health Summit, University of Sao Paolo, Reed College, Lewis and Clark College, SXSW, SXSW ME Conference Stockholm, XPrize, University of Washington, DELL Medical School, Google, Google X, Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, Kripalu, Esalen, Deakin University, Stanford University, Alfred Health, Cleveland Clinic Patient Experience Summit, YPO, Boston University, American Academy of Religion, Global Wellness Institute, Schwartz Center for Compassionate Care, C-TAC, American Telemedicine Association, Exponential Medicine, Singularity University.
BOOKS
Let's Talk About Death (Over Dinner)
Let's Talk About Death (Over Dinner) was published by Hachette in the U.S., U.K., and Australia in October of 2018 and Russia, China, Taiwan, Indonesia, Poland and Romania in the fall of 2019, and will soon be published in Finland.
Death is one of the most important topics we need to discuss—but we don’t. We know why—it’s loaded, uncomfortable, and often depressing. But what if death wasn’t a repressed topic, but one filled with possibility, a conversation capable of bringing us closer to those we love?
In Let’s Talk About Death (over Dinner), Michael Hebb encourages us to pull up a chair, break bread, and really talk about the one thing we all have in common. His practical advice and thought-provoking have led hundreds of thousands of discussions—and they will help you broach everything from end-of-life care to the meaning of legacy to how long we should grieve. There's no one right way to talk about death, but with a little humor and grace, you’ll transform your difficult conversations into an opportunity of celebration and meaning, changing not only the way we die, but also the way we live. Purchase here.
"Wise, poignant, compelling--Hebb tackles hard issues with honesty and good taste. This book is food for the soul."―Ira Byock, MD, author of Dying Well and The Best Care Possible
"Hebb aims to make death less taboo in all ways possible. The book ultimately offers practical advice on how to have conversations related to death, no matter the setting, yet manages to be amusing at times. This is a recommended read, to say the least."
―The Hype
"A reader-friendly guide to the conversations most people avoid having...A vade mecum that will make one's reaping a bit less grim."
―Kirkus Reviews
"Explores just how crucial discussions of death are to living a happy, fulfilling life. It's packed with lessons on how we can approach those conversations purposefully and effectively."
―Thrive Global
The Endless Table
Recipes from Departed Loved Ones. By Michael Hebb and Ellen Goodman. 20 of our country's leading chefs share powerful stories and recipes from someone they have lost. Featuring Tom Colicchio, Ben Ford, Jasper White, Amanda Hesser, Jose Andres, Jody Adams, Michel Nischan, Naomi Duguid, Tim Ferriss, Marc Forgione, Gordon Hamersley, Kathleen Flinn, Ina Garten, Kathy Gunst and Christopher Kimball. Photography by Annie Musselman. Designed by Civilization. Purchase ebook here.
PRESS
The Atlantic: Discussing Death Over Dinner
The Guardian: ‘Remember you will die’ – and 11 other tips for a better death
USA Today: One New Year's idea: Have dinner and talk about death
TEDMED: What happens when death is what's for dinner
Al Jazeera: Rebranding Death: What is the "death positive" movement?
Forbes: Here's How We Should Disrupt Death
BBC: 'I attended my own funeral'
Boston Globe: Why you should throw a dinner party to talk about death
NPR: Let's Talk About Death Over Dinner
CNN: The Endless Table: How recipes can keep your memories alive
Forbes: Dinner Parties Encourage Talk About Death
Fast Company: The Rise of the Death Wellness Movement
The Washington Post: Death and scones: Cozy gatherings make end-of-life conversations less scary
Los Angeles Times: No one wants to talk about death, but you need to anyway
Thrive Global: Why Talking About Death Might Help You Live a Better Life
Vice: How Boomers are Planning to Die
Newsweek Poland: Death Over Dinner
Bloomberg: Death Dinners at Baby Boomers’ Tables Take on Dying Taboo
USA Today: Don't avoid planning your death.
Topic: How to Talk About Death Over Dinner, 4-part Documentary
The Journal of the American Medical Association: Building a Better Death, One Conversation at a Time
Toronto Star: Talking about death. Over dinner
The Economic Times of India: Discussing death over dinner with strangers
Calgary Herald: Learn To Talk About Death Over Dinner
Religion News Service: A death wellness expert, wants people to plan for their end
Wall Street Journal: Taking the Fear Out of Death Planning
Washington Post: What is a good death?
Huffington Post Magazine: Death Over Dinner
Chicago Tribune: Eat, drink be merry and talk about death
Washington Post: What is a good death?
Seattle Magazine: Why This Seattle Man Wants You to Talk About Death
ENDWELL: Pursuit of Longevity. Michael Hebb + Eric Weinstein
Thrive Global: I Talked with a Group of Strangers About Death
Chase Jarvis Live: THE MOST IMPORTANT CONVERSATION ABOUT LIFE…
The Tennessean: Death Over Dinner promotes talking, planning for end
Idaho Statesman: A deep dinnertime conversation about life and death
The Atlantic: 'Death Dinners,' a Sobering New Eating Trend
KIRO Radio: Are you prepared for death?
HIMSS TV: Healthcare Edition Beta Launches
Chicago Tribune: Preparing for death doesn’t have to be scary
The Health Report: Death over Dinner comes to Australia
ABC Australia: Death over dinner with Dr Norman Swan
The Project: Death Over Dinner
ABC Lateline: An unusual dinner party
The Examiner: Acceptance of death part of conversation
Huffington Post Australia: The Gentlest Revolution Imaginable
Seattle Magazine: Seattle, It's Time to Talk About Death
Thrive Global: Has death become a fad
The Courier Mail: We need to talk about death
Daily Mail: Death at the dinner table
New York Times: At the End of Life, What Would Doctors Do?
Brainstorm Health 2018: Why Don't We Talk About Death?
Seattle Times: Let's have dinner and talk about death
Memorial Sloan Kettering: How to Talk to Your Care Team and Loved Ones about Dying
Mind Body Green: 7 ways to throw a green dinner party
Thrive Global: Let's Have Dinner and Talk About Death
Seattle Magazine: Seattle's Idea-Sharing Explosion
The Stranger: A New Career in a New Town
Life Death Law Podcast: Death Over Dinner
Thrive Global: If You Struggle to Talk About Death, Read This
Boston University: Changing the Conversation
Lion’s Roar: 7 Life and Death Questions
The Numinous: FACE YOUR FEARS…AT A SEX, DRUGS AND DEATH RETREAT
Bustle: I Simulated My Own Death & Here's What I Learned
Kirkus Review: Let’s Talk About Death (Over Dinner)
The Health Care Blog: Excerpt from the Book Let’s Talk About Death (Over Dinner)
ABC Radio Australia: Let's Talk About Death Over Dinner
Next Avenue: What We’ve Learned in Two Decades Without Morrie
The Bookworm: This book will help you talk about death with loved ones
EPOCA: TO EXPERIENCE DEATH INVITES US TO TALK ABOUT IT
THINK Radio: Have This Talk Before It’s Too Late
Kripalu: Why We Need to Talk About Death
New York Times: Zen, and the art of dying well.
KQED: How To Have Effective Conversations About Death
The Wrap: How Hollywood is Embracing End of Life
World Magazine: Books on life and death
Fast Company: At Death Over Dinner, The End Of Life Gets Intimate
Forward: What We Talk About When We Talk About Death
Tablet: Let’s Talk About Death
ABC News: Let's Talk About Death Over Dinner
Thrive Global: 9 books that helped us Thrive in 2018
Dr. Oz Show: Dr. Oz announces partnership with Drugs Over Dinner and The Surgeon General
Huffington Post: Why Strangers Are Coming Together To Discuss Tough Subjects Over Dinner
Hospice News: How I Would Choose to Die
Las Vegas Review Journal: the most important conversation nobody’s having
CrossCut: How to Die a Good, Green Death
The Stranger: Have Dinner with Your Muslim Neighbor
The Washington Post: A Muslim Cook Wanted to Stop the Hate
NBC News: Defying Muslim Stereotypes at the Dinner Table
Mind Body Green: Why Death is Becoming an Integral Part of Wellness
Wise Bread: Why You Should Throw a Dinner Party to Talk About Death
Forbes: Summit LA17 Takes Over Downtown
GOOD: Summit and L.A. Chargers Help Rethink How To Feed The Hungry
Elle: My Woke Hot American Summer: 72 Hours at Male Feminism Camp
GOOD: Tables to Change the World: An Interview with Michael Hebb
Jewish Journal: Seder2015 hopes to bring millennials to the Passover table
New York Times: Outrageous? He's heard that before
Food and Wine: What's Eating Portland's Food Provocateur?
The Oregonian: Restaurant of the Year
The Stranger: New Career in a New Town
Portland Business Journal: Clarklewis
REED Magazine: A Moveable Feast
Post Gazette: Kitchen Not So Confidential
Food and Wine: An Insider’s Guide to Seattle’s Outsider Chefs
New Yorker: Toques From The Underground
TV24 Poland: Death Over Dinner
Polityka Poland: Let’s Talk About Death
Thrive Global: Need Some Dinner Conversation Topics? How About Death
Well and Good: Death Positivity Movement
Deccan Chronicle: Death Over Dinner
Dance Past Sunset: Death Over Dinner
Exponential Medicine: Talking About Life Death and Joy
The Stranger: Message to the City
The Motley Fool: How to Talk About Death
Fatherly: Let’s Talk About Death — At the Dinner Table
Builtin Seattle: This Seattle Entrepreneur Is Changing How We Talk About Death
Podcasts
Cal Fussman Podcast; Talking About Death is Medicine
Mantalks: What Death Can Teach Us
CreativeLive: The Most Important Conversation
Zestful Aging: Death Over Dinner
Are you being real? Michael Hebb
The Motley Fool, Let’s Talk About Death Over Dinner
The Motley Fool, a recorded Death Dinner
What’s The Big Idea: Talk About Death
The Heart of Hospice: Death Over Dinner
Ask a Doula: Talking Love and Death
Dying Your Way: Death Over Dinner
Town Hall Podcast: Michael Hebb and Lesley Hazleton
Art of Manliness Podcast: Michael Hebb
LIFE/DEATH/LAW Podcast: Death Over Dinner
End of Life University Podcast: Death Over Dinner
The Good Living Podcast: Death Over Dinner